When Men Take Their Wife’s Surname: South Africa’s Bold Move 

In a historic decision, South Africa’s Constitutional Court has ruled that men can legally adopt their wife’s surname after marriage. Until now, the law only made it easy for women to take their husband’s surname — a colonial-era leftover that quietly reinforced patriarchy.

With this verdict, the law now recognizes equality in names — whether you want to keep, hyphenate, or swap surnames.

Why it matters?

  • It challenges age-old gender roles where only women had to “give up” their identity.

  • It opens space for couples to make choices that reflect partnership, not tradition alone.

  • It’s a symbolic win for gender equality in Africa and beyond.

Netizens React

  • Some are cheering: “About time men share the pressure!”

  • Others are laughing: “Can’t wait to see husbands explaining why they took the wife’s name.”

  • A few are debating: “Isn’t identity beyond surnames anyway?”


Did You Know?

  • In Japan, 95% of women still take their husband’s surname because the law requires married couples to share one last name.

  • In Spain and many Latin countries, kids get both parents’ surnames — mom’s and dad’s.

  • In India, women usually take the husband’s surname, but there’s no legal bar for men to take their wife’s. It’s just…rare.


 What do you think? Should more countries — including India — normalize this step toward equality?

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